Well, I guess I’m pretty average in this regard. Just another of many new brides who decided to make a big hair change shortly after the nuptials were done. But so what, right? I’ve been thinking about it for a while now and it just made sense. So I went for it. Fortune does favour the bold, or so I’ve heard.
Recently, my friend The Magpie was telling me about the time she got bored during a snowstorm in the late 90’s and decided to let her boyfriend shave her head. And then to make it really pop, she bleached the remains a gnarly shade of blind-you-in-an-instant blonde. That’s way too drastic to be considered bold though; that’s downright berserk! But that’s just how she rolls. I roll way more tamely when it comes to my hair.
I had scheduled my cut before hearing that story, and I was still hedging a little. But when I walked in and saw my hairdresser rocking a svelte, shaved, bleached blonde ‘do of her very own, I knew it was a sign from the universe. I heard the call, it was time for me to be bold, make a change, do something unexpected. Time for a new spin on classic Smash.
It’s short, you guys! I haven’t worn my hair short in a very very long time. I would say, probably not since grade 9? When I rocked a really unfortunate afro. Short + perm = a real bad look for me. Yeah, don’t get your hair cut or permed in your mom’s friend’s basement. Especially not when it’s 2001 and she’s still sporting a majorly teased and immovable dome of 80’s horror hair.
But this time around I was in much better hands and I was feeling spontaneous. I didn’t tell D I was doing it either. I didn’t tell anyone. I just wanted to be independent and do my own thing.
And I couldn’t be happier!
For comparison, here’s my old mop on St. Patty’s this year.
It was long, and unruly, and difficult. It was holding me back.
I feel better now. I’m feeling sleek, modern, and cool. Easy breezy. A hipper, bolder Smash for the next half of this decade.
D was surprised at first. And when I rolled into work on Monday my pal The Magpie was floored. So far the reviews have been rave. But most importantly of all, I feel fucking fantastic.
Change is good. Fortune has definitely favoured this bold soul.
It looks lovely! You look all grown up now and grown up well!
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Aww, thanks 🙂
That sure is kind of you to say!
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I thought f’sure this story was going to end with you getting a crew/buzz cut… but I’m glad you didn’t go that drastic. Your new style is hella cute!
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Aww, thanks Dee!
But, yeah… the shaved head thing is a way beyond the limit of my “edginess” boundary. But props to the women who boldly go where I cannot and actually can pull it off!
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so cute!
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Thanks! 🙂
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Lookin’ good, good lady!!!!
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Right back at ya, pal! 🙂
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It sure is always good to hear from you : )
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looks great Smash. A little change is always great!
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Thanks Rob!
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WOW, you went really short! And when did you grow the beard, and get glasses??
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I thought the beard would be a good way to accent my jawline. And I need those glasses to get into cool clubs!
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Well you look handsome as shit.
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I love it! You look great, Smash! 🙂
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Thanks T9! 🙂
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Looks great! Plus, short hair is so much easier to manage 🙂
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Thanks Erica! It is a million times easier to deal with it. My only wish is that I’d done this sooner!
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It took about a week but I’m finally done gaping at you every time i see your hair….
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Lol, well good! I’m glad it’s become normalized in our every day life now. Otherwise I’d probably have to quit my job if every meeting we were in you stared at my like I’d grown a second head.
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